Raising a child or parenting is always associated with moms be it a working mom or a Stay-at-home-mom.
Yes , Moms !!
Everything related to a child is presumed to be taken care by her and as a kid my first thought was really- is it a mom’s job.
It was totally different in the family I was brought up. A family where I have seen parenting is not a responsibility, it is growing with your kids and sharing everything related to them by father and mother together.
My dad is always my role model and how much I appreciate the way he brought us up. Both my parents were working but then they had a flexibility with office timings though we knew that it was still taxing on them to manage different shifts in a way we were never left alone without a parent. I don’t even remember a single moment when it was just my dad or just my mom, it had to be both as a parent be it a parent- teacher meeting, any school performance, examination, Holidays, doctors visit, birthdays, picnic and many more.
Probably this is the reason we have very fond memories of our childhood that it takes two to raise a happy kid.
When I got married and planned for our kid, the first thought which was there to raise our kids with something called as Equal Parenting.
I am lucky to have such a supportive husband and a doting father to our kids who very well plays a role of mother too. Most of the times he is better than me.
When our 1st kid “Aayan” was born no one from our family was there with us and as a first time parents like everyone we were a bit anxious but together we have happily shared our sleepless nights, clueless crying, first vaccination, nappy rashes, diaper change, feeding, first tooth and many more 1st !
With the birth of our second precious “Kaira” , I believe our relationship has become stronger and more loving with every passing year where we are growing up together with our “mini us” !
Sharing the parenting responsibilities is a wonderful part of this journey which has just not made our relationship stronger but has also given our kids the confidence that they are growing beautifully in a happy family.
It definitely takes two to be a parent and a teamwork by both parents make it a wonderful family!
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Perfectly put, Pooja. Enjoyed reading it.
I envy those kids who were raised by both their parents because I was raised by my grandmothers. That's why I told myself that when I have my own child, I will make sure that he or she will grow up with both parents. Though I was brought up by my grandma's, I'm still thankful that after they were gone, I was still able to grow closer to both parents.
I am sure your grandmother had given you loads of love.
Parenting is a joint effort and it's so true that it takes two to tango so moms and dads should really work together! Love this! 😀
Definitely parenting is all about learning together and enjoying this phase.
I am so agree with you that it takes 2 to parents, we need both work together not just alone. I always try arrange doctor visits with my dear, where he can also meet the doctor together.
This sums up me and my husband pretty well. He's a very hands on dad, was a natural parent the first time we had a child. He believes that providing financially and just being there on the weekends, or occasionally isn't what a father's role is. He's very much into every single detail of our children's upbringing. Marriage and parenting takes two, it is a teamwork. 🙂
I'm quite lucky myself that my husband and I both work from home so we're able to raise our boys equally. I'm sure most days, he does more of the rough playing than me because I'm the more strict one. I'm so proud of him for being such a great Dad!
Is that an actual picture of you and your husband? You guys are very photogenic. Even though I work the whole day, I still take on tutoring duties for my kids at night. We both have to be involved when our kids are concerned.
No Fred.. this is an article I wrote about parenting so took the photo from there ..Wished i was so photogenic 🙂 My hubby is also involved a lot in our kids studies.
It is definitely a huge benefit to have a strong parenting team. It is great that you can both work together so well for the benefit of your beautiful family.
Wow. This is what I call, responsible parenting. I admire parents who put their children first. After all, being a parent does not end at putting food in the table or clothing your children. Being a parent is everything that child can/could be.
My parents were hands-on in raising. They have assigned tasks. Mama took care of my nutrition and well-being while papa helped me with schoolwork.
This is so true, kids need support from both parents. It's also not just about being financially capable but also capable of providing their needs as an individual.
I totally agree with this. Especially in this day and age!
Parenting is not a responsibility, but it is a duty of both parents to rear their kids according to the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
I can say that I am also lucky to have my husband because he can really handle the kids very well. Parenting is really hard and I salute all single parents that they can manage their time taking care of their kids all by themselves.
I agree it takes two to raise a child. There are some values that moms can give and at the same time, there are some principles that dad inculcates.
Very well said, Parenting is just an easy task to do if husband and wife do their part to the max.
Constant appreciation will do wonders to a family. While it is optimal to have both parent in a family, some might not have the privilege. So this shouldn't be something people forced on.
Very true ! Having both the parents is a blessing and definitely a privilege.
Glad that you have a lovely family
Thanks Kelly !
I am a stay at home mom for 5 years now, now ai fdont know how will I ever go bavk in the corporate world thinking I will left my kid for 9-11 hrs
Such an inspiring post. It always takes two and not just the mom to develop a child.
Teamwork sure helps! Glad you are both enjoying every bit of parenthood!
Totally agree…I am a new mom myself staying abroad without family near us…Things would have been much tough if my hubby wasn't supportive…Everything we do is TOGETHER…and thats our successful mantra…
Amazing experience. I am still single so it was lesson for me to learn 🙂
What a beautiful article.It is very difficult to raise a child alone with no experience.You and your husband deserve a big bravo.I wish you and your family all the best!
I agree that mother and father should have the same role to their child. Though they both have different style
I agree on equal parenting. It takes 2 to tango in raising kids together : ) It may not be easy at the beginning, but as time passes, it will make the bonding & relationship between husband & wife, parents & kids much more stronger : ) Cheers, SiennyLovesDrawing
Awh such a sweet entry! And yes it does take both sides to raise a child and its true when the bond between both parents grow stronger as well. Beautifully written.
I am not yet a parent but I will take note of this. My parents do work together as a team though.
I agree parenting but be both mom and dad. It would difficult if just for one parent. So for parents who need advice will need check out parenting workshop.
Yes, both parents are involved! It is not the mom's job only.
It is an ideal world for a child to be raised with both parents… However sometime shit happens and the kid is left with one parent… We should do the best we can when this happens… I am glad my youngest daughter grew up with both parents doting on her unlike her older siblings who only had one parent raising them
Yeap equally parenting definitely important during child growth. Really wish I can handle my family next time nicely as you say! Thanks for sharing!
Thanks your sharing! Although it still a long way for me to reach the stage of my life but I hope I can give my child the best too <3
I agree that raising a family need teamwork from both husband and wife.
it's true that taking care of children can be very taxing….im not sure if I could manage work and children at the same time..for now i dont think I want children..
i totally agree that parenting is not meant to be one sided as it takes 2 to make a precious baby 🙂
with kids, our lives change tremendously, lifestyle and all have to adapt to the kids. Of course, they are a bundle of joy, but it comes with lots of dedicated hard work :P.. i have 2 children now, and do not plan for the third anytime soon, 2 is already a handful!!!
Fully agree… If either one party can't cooperate.. Life would be pretty tough..
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"Sharing the parenting responsibilities is a wonderful part of this journey"
Love your concept and totally agreed you! Thanks for sharing! ^^
I agree. As it takes two to tango and make babies, same goes with parenting. I support this sentiment.
It's definitely a joint effort, since both parent created the kid together, plus it's beneficial to all coz there will be a close family bond thus making everyone happy
100% agree, and always 2 is better than 1
supportive side are good for kids too
Totally agree, love the quote 'parenting is teamwork between two equals'! But first, I need to find a husband first 😉
So true! Is always better to have both side to support, definitely help the kids grow better too. Love the post ????????
Great to hear that your hubby is so new age and is a good father!
While it's definitely ideal to have both parents to be around for all occasions, but sadly it is just not possible for some families. Mums and mostly dads are working long hours to secure the kids' future education and to put food on the table. But that doesn't mean they have less of a family.
I agree with you, Pooja. That being said, just because one parent is not around more, that doesn't mean he/she is not contributing. Because sometimes a parent can be around physically but he/she may not be there wholeheartedly and causes neglect.